Dating Dilemma: Breaking Up

If your relationship gives you more misery than pleasure and more pain than fun, sit down with a pencil and paper and figure out what you want and what you're willing to offer to get it. If you discover that there is nothing the other person can give (or anything you're willing to relinquish), then that should tell you something. Similarly, if you're in a relationship that used to work but has now turned rancid because one of you has moved or changed or cheated, you can't go back. However, you can evaluate if there is anything your partner can offer that has value to you and anything that you're willing to offer to get it. If so, get busy and figure it out and offer it. If not, it's time to do that grown-up thing and break up without bloodshed or nastiness.

Ever thought why do people fight, why couldn’t there be a world without fights? Well to be frank I used to be a very aggressive kind of guy though I was very young, I was really short tempered. Then I started to realize the pains and hardships the victims go through. In simple words I realized the difference between right and the wrong at the right time. If you ask how, then I would say by going through the same thing others used to go through. Then why don’t the people who fight realize this? Well there can be a lot of reasons ! I will be talking about why people fight and how to bring a change in them.