Human Ecstasy

This question is there in most men's minds but they hardly ever spit it out ... coz they are too busy persuading women to open up.

However, the question DOES have an answer.

Now I cant do a writeup on this and put it up on the front page... but I do have the answer ... which is :

Okay so I got a couple of messages asking me to complete this post ... which means you guys are following the forums too. So without further delay...

The reason why women all across the world are so hung up about sex... is that they are trained their entire adolescent and early life that sex is bad .... is wrong ... is inhuman and is ungodly. And then those very people who taught her / bred her that way send her off nicely packed ... wrapped up in nice clothes to do exactly what she was told 'is bad'.

Think of the paradox that they experience... on one hand she has been told that sex is bad and on the other hand her hubby expects her to be this sex Godess who would bring all his erotic dreams come true. And when the same hubby gets a daughter for a child ... he starts training her the same way ... "sex is bad ... its ungodly ... how do u even dare think about sex."

Ever wondered why sex is said to be the oldest trade??? Coz good sex was the only thing girls could trade and get ANYTHING in exchange for it.
The girls who realized and broke away from the training were appreciated by the guys often termed as sluts and hoes... good enough to sleep with but not good enough to spend their life with. When it comes to a life partner they need a good homely girl .... and as soon as they get one... they need their sex Godess too.

So, the whole system is wrong its unjust towards both men and women

Now finding a solution for this is the real challenge ... coz thats where I'm also at a loss... how do you un-train or de-train a person who has been trained for years n years on the same thing... ?

What a classic chauvinist approach

how easy it is for you guys to generalize things

what do you expect girls to do ? just sleep with every guy she meets so that she can prove that she isnt hung up about sex ?

I knew something like this would be comign my way... specially from a women...
but the whole point is; NO ... I dont expect women to sleep around in order to prove anything. The only point of my thread / post is .... that the system is wrong ... stop preaching that sex is bad ... stop preaching its ungodly to have sex with anyone ( I suppose its ok to preach taht its ungodly to have sex with anyone other than you're life partner).

Try and understand ... women are not wrong, men are wrong with their way of thinking and the society's system is wrong.

MaxAxe wrote:

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I knew something like this would be comign my way... specially from a women...
but the whole point is; NO ... I dont expect women to sleep around in order to prove anything. The only point of my thread / post is .... that the system is wrong ... stop preaching that sex is bad ... stop preaching its ungodly to have sex with anyone ( I suppose its ok to preach taht its ungodly to have sex with anyone other than you're life partner).

Try and understand ... women are not wrong, men are wrong with their way of thinking and the society's system is wrong.

I support that in the sense that the society is so twisted up. AT one point of time they tell you sex is bad..and the next time ur asked to do it so that you can get your progeny forward..such a hypocrite...

Sex is something most of us(even women) think about almost every few minutes of every hour of every day of every week of every year and so and so forth... It is something impossible to live without and to forget, because deep inside we all are still animals and each one of us has animal instincts... No matter how madly or deeply in love we're or how young or old, our blood still rushes at the sight of someone beautiful of the opposite sex.
What is sex? Is it just our animal instincts or something much more deeper, something much more psychological... The truth is, it is all of it and more... It is not hard to understand, that sex is an essential part of life, and the sooner we accept it, the sooner we can get back to living our lives peacefully and contently...

Honestly mate ... the women of today are little bit different that the ones from my era... however, still it depends on how many experiences have you had and by that I just mean how many people have you had a heart to heart talk with. I dont want to sound like a bickering swine ... so I'll shutup here

I am not saying that they're much different then the ones you knew or the ones I know, What I am saying is that all this social prejudice and old orthodox beliefs that sex is the forbidden fruit, it is evil, it sabotages our mind and so on, are wrong.. We need to strive for a world in which sex is not such a major issue, its just another part of out wonderful life....

Be it women or man, the fact is each one of us wants sex, can't live without it, it is our beliefs which make us believe something entirely different so much so that we have to suppress our innermost desires and lust, all of this erupts in many unwanted evils...

Sex is often ridiculed by society for being unpure, the fact is, sex is the reason the society is there.... Its all a part of the cycle of life....