What women look for when they look at a man- by MaxAxe
This is a common question that men of all ages and all decades have and will always have. There are a bunch of common answers that we all know of;
- Sense of humor, someone who can make them laugh
- Sensitive, caring, loving, understanding
- Great personality, looks dashing
Now I don’t have any problems with any of these answers… but here are my observations:
Sense of humor; someone who makes her laugh: Understandable, everybody likes guys who make others laugh. However, the issue is ‘EVERYBODY’ likes guys who make others laugh, there’s nothing special about a girl/woman liking such a guy. Honestly, I’ve been a joker all my life and sure was popular amongst girls too, however when taking one out for a date the humor didn’t help. Honestly no one wants to go out with a joker. So, the humor is nice but only to a certain extent.
Sensitive, Caring, Loving, Understanding: Again, everybody likes a guy who whose caring and sensitive. Everybody likes a shoulder to cry on, but when it comes to a date the big flashy car works better than a sensible sensitive guy.
Great personality, Dashing looks; well this becomes really really subjective on what kind of a woman are you looking forward to and what kind of looks does the woman like. We’ll talk about this later…
So what is it really? What do ALL women look for consciously or subconsciously?
Money and Power those are the only two things that ALL women look for, now now I know you’ll start off; that can’t be true, that’s not true, my girlfriend doesn’t look for that, women would go ahead and that I’m just a MCP (male chauvinist pig) & what not. But, that’s the truth; women look for Power and Money or Money and Power. Let me elaborate and I’m sure you’ll agree, because this comes not from me but as a concentrated version of all the talks that I’ve had with different women.
Money and power can be defined/interpreted in many ways I’ll start with the obvious. We all know every gender is divided into two basic categories: The Good and The Bad, so let’s start with the good girl and bad girl routine. Ever wondered why all the good looking girls are attracted to all the bad guys? Simple reason… money and power. The good looking girl may have a bad girl thought process. The movies show it, the news has it all over and we all know someone or the other who fits perfectly in this example.
Power is not limited to physical strength; it could be anything, such as a powerful position, armed forces, police job, administrative power, politics, money is also a form of power, age factor, etc… it is completely dependent on the circumstances around. Let me start with a simple example, the age factor … how many of you have seen or know of school girls attracted to collage boys? I know the answer is ‘all’ of us. The same things applicable to any and all forms of power. It’s a law of nature that cannot be changed; earlier it used to be a leader of the pack or the strongest male, now since other forms of power have been introduced the choices have become varied, but the law remains the same; power attracts.
You know the law; Now what?
Few pointers to attract the right kind of women
Ok so now that the cat is out of the hat; how can you capitalize on your new found knowledge?
Here are some pointers that would help you to attract the your kind of women:
- Humor: Yes I said it doesn’t work too well, but it works to grab attention. However, don’t do it if humor is not your forte’ no one likes the sense of humor if it’s crappy. So, do a little bit of self assessment before you start cracking jokes. You don’t want to disgust people or bore them with jokes that only you understand.
- Looks – This is completely subjective; there are people who can only sport a certain kind of look really well and then there are the kind of people who can switch to any style and still look good. However, before you sport a certain kind of look, consider the kind of women you want to attract. If it’s the bad girl you want to attract then you need to sport the bad boy look or I should say the George Michael look or the Akshay Kumar look in Tashan. There’s another Bad Boy look which has become popular is a sophisticated Bad Boy kind of Will Smith in Bad Boys 2 or James Bond (the actor doesn’t matter because they all have been the classic sophisticated bad boy). If it’s the good girl you’re looking to attract; it gets tougher, you not only need the right looks but you also need to have a good personality, an overall good aura around you. The good thing is, you can experiment with your looks and find out what works the best for you, but remember just looks will not help you, but it will draw attention.
Top left George Michael - Right Akshay Kumar
Once you have these two things under control, time to move on to the next level.
What is the single thing that every woman in the world can’t resist? The answer; she can’t resist herself. Now you’d say what kind of an answer is that, let me explain. See every woman in the world likes herself more than anyone else. All you need to do is appreciate that fact and acknowledge it by complementing her. You know you like em, why not let them know with the right set of compliments! And I mean RIGHT set of compliments and not shallow compliments like ‘Hey good lookin!’
Compliments like “You look gorgeous”; “You look beautiful” might work once or twice, but remember these are compliments that almost every girl hears from all the guys.
Genuine compliments sound more like “You make that dress look good”;”You making me crazy for you”; “You’re the smartest girl I’ve met”;”The best moments of my life are the ones I spend with you”. These are genuine compliments and there are tons more depending on the kind of women you have interested in you. Just one thing, make it mushy, now I know not many guys like the mushy stuff and prefer not to do it but, this isn’t about you. The girls like it, the girls want it so make it mushy. Honey, Darling, Baby, Sweetie, Princess … are just some of the words that always work. Just two points to remember here: Don’t overdo it and never stop doing it, once she gets used to the mushy stuff once she is completely into you and you stop doing the mushy stuff, she would hit you back and hit you were it hurts and trust me you don’t want that to happen.
Once she is into you, she is also onto you. You’ll say what the hell does that mean?
It means girls like to keep their men to themselves and she will keep checking on you every now and then. No matter how many times she says that she trusts you and she isn’t checking on you, believe me… she is. She also knows the truth that a man will always look around as this is in his instincts. So your loyalty is her top priority, hence it’s your responsibility that she never feels insecure about you.
These are some pointers that also help
All kind of women hate slobs. You’re sitting there like a bum, haven’t bathed for days and things around you are in complete mess, don’t even think about getting a women interested in you, because she might get interested only to lose that interest soon enough. Bad boy looks or good boy looks, would count only if you are well groomed and can carry the looks well. Working on that body of yours would also help a great deal as that’s one trend that would never die off. Also, be kind and generous towards everyone around you this might not impact directly but this would build your overall social appeal and trust me, the girls will take notice.
Now managing all of this is intimidating and downright difficult. But I never said that being the Irresistible Alpha Male would be easy. My suggestion is take one hurdle at a time and start early, and no one can stop you from being Mr. Irresistible and getting the kind of girl you really want and keep her loving you that way you like.
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in JLT by MaxAxe, 16-12-09 18:34
